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Our mission is to help the Christian woman whose husband has been unfaithful to their marriage vows.

Ashes Redeemed offers a variety of signature programs to support a woman in this situation.

Whether she's reeling from a recent discovery, or has been living with the knowledge of the betrayal for a number of years, we are here to support her in finding the clarity she needs to take the next step on her path to healing, whether that's to...

  • Confidently stay with her husband and work to restore her marriage,

  • Feel at peace with moving on from the relationship, or

  • Find her footing again during the chaos of betrayal discovery...

Menu of Services

Our mission is to help the Christian woman whose husband has been unfaithful to their marriage vows.

Ashes Redeemed offers a variety of signature programs to support a woman in this situation.

Whether she's reeling from a recent discovery, or has been living with the knowledge of the betrayal for a number of years, we are here to support her in finding the clarity she needs to take the next step on her path to healing, whether that's to...

  • Confidently stay with her husband and work to restore her marriage,

  • Feel at peace with moving on from the relationship, or

  • Find her footing again during the chaos of betrayal discovery...

For the Woman Who Knows

It's Time To Make A Decision...

If you have been living with the knowledge of your husband's betrayal for some time and know it's time to make a decision to either confidently stay and work on the marriage, or to move on from the relationship without being overwhelmed with guilt and regret, From Betrayal to Breakthrough might be for you...

From Betrayal to Breakthrough

  • A 90-Day Support Program to Help You Make A Decision You Feel Great About

  • Biblically-based

  • Group Format

  • Private Community + Group Chat

  • Self-Paced (start anytime)

  • Get coached & learn from others on the weekly group calls

  • Proprietary curriculum gives you step-by-step actions to take so you go from indecisive and unsure to confidence and aligned in your decision to stay, or go.

For the Woman

Who Just Found Out...

If you have just recently discovered an incident or a lifestyle of betrayal in your marriage and are struggling to find the productive support you need to navigate the immediate spiritual, social, and emotional heartache, The Care Package might be for you...

The Care Package

  • 90-Day Support Program to stop the spinning

  • Biblically-based

  • One-on-One Format

  • Private Community + Group Chat

  • Self-Paced (start anytime)

  • Individual coaching sessions with dedicated coach

  • Proprietary curriculum to facilitate growth and help you navigate immediate concerns regarding the revelation of betrayal

"Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning."
- Psalm 30:50

From Betrayal to Breakthrough is a 90-day support program helping the Christian woman decide what to do next after discovering her husband has engaged in an emotional affair, physical infidelity, or habitual pornography use--whether that's to confidently stay with her husband & work to restore the marriage, or conclude the relationship--without regret or fear of the future.

We do this from a Gospel-centered perspective, helping the betrayed wife gain the clarity she needs to move forward in her life and faith, and as the strongest, most resilient version of herself.

"I feel like I can actually make a choice. Before I was just a victim of my emotions and now I can recognize that and make better choices."

Carrie T.

"This journey has been helping me let myself be human, but then learning how to be human in a way that honors the Lord."

Andrea P.

"I just thought I was tired and burnt out because I was 60, but really I was tired and burnt out because I was just so angry all the time.."

Margie M.

Free Micro-Training

The Healing Accelerator Framework

Feel better right now by using our One Page Healing Accelerator Framework to get immediate relief from the pain, confusion, and fear of regret that comes from discovering betrayal in your marriage, by understanding betrayal's impact on the way you see your future.

In this micro-training, you'll experience just one small piece of our From Betrayal to Breakthrough program-the clearest & most predictable system for any Christian woman who is serious about finding the clarity she needs to make a decision on what to do next...

Meet Our Facilitators

Hi there!

Hi there!

We're Elise Park & Jennifer Kwiatkowski. As Christian women who have both overcome issues of betrayal in our own marriages, we know what it's like to face certain challenges that are unique to Believers when it comes to post-betrayal decisions.

As Certified Professional Coaches, we have supported women in their wellbeing endeavors for many years, but our passion for equipping Christian women to live authentically in their faith, while becoming the strongest, most resilient & radiant version of themselves has only grown--especially as we see the devastating effects that our hyper-sexualized culture has on the family unit.

We are blessed to see God work powerfully in the lives and marriages of our clients and are honored to be a part of their healing journeys.

Blessings to you,

Elise & Jennifer

What is From Betrayal to Breakthrough?

The From Betrayal to Breakthrough program is a powerful system for helping Christian women find the clarity they need about their marriage in just 90 days, without the obstacles of indecision, self-doubt, or fear of regret--so they can finally feel good about moving forward from the discovery of betrayal in the marriage.

So if you want a crystal clear and predictable roadmap to help you figure out if you want to:

A) confidently stay with your husband and work to restore your marriage, or

B) be at peace with moving on from the relationship,

...then you've found it.

How does it work?

Making a long-term decision about your marriage after betrayal isn't easy. There are three ingredients that every woman in this situation must have in place in order to reach a decision that she feels alined with:

Commitment

Being committed to your own spiritual, emotional, and mental wellbeing is an essential first step in getting the clarity you need to move forward. No one can make this commitment for you--it must come from a deep desire to break free of the pain, confusion, and fear that will otherwise keep you stuck in resentment and anger for the rest of your life.

Airline attendants tell the passengers, "In case of emergency, put your own oxygen masks first!" and this is essentially what we do in our program--we help you put your own "oxygen mask" on first, so that you can make a decision that aligns with your faith and supports your values.

Support

Countless women have shared their betrayal stories with us and almost all of them have remarked how lonely they've felt while dealing with the pain, despite being active in their church community. It's clear to that the support they've gotten has been either not enough, or not the right kind. Most often this looks like:

-Help for the man (but not for her)

-"Just" advice: "Just hurry up and forgive him..." or "Just leave already..."

Neither of these truly support the healing and wellbeing for the betrayed wife in her decision on how to handle her next steps.

Benefiting from the right kind of support doesn't have to take a long time, but it must be done with care, intention, and sensitivity. This is what we offer.

Discernment

The final ingredient needed to achieve the clarity you're looking for is discernment. We know you have a lot of mental and emotional "noise" after discovering an incident or lifestyle of betrayal. In addition to all the external factors (like time, money, friends, and family) you also have internal factors influencing the way you respond to your situation, not to mention the spiritual warfare you're contenting with also.

Being able to distinguish truth from lies is essential for moving forward in your decision, so that you're not living in anger, resentment, or regret for the rest of your life.

How is this different from counseling or therapy?

Counseling, therapy, and coaching are all valid, but different modalities for helping a person make productive changes to their life. Coaching as a form of support has its roots in the world of sports and performance, to enhance capabilities and apply the use of practical tools. In short, coaching helps you create. Many clients benefit from working with a counselor or therapist while also working with a coach. Coaching is not intended to be crisis management. Ashes Redeemed coaches are Certified Professional Coaches and credentialed by the International Coaching Federation.

For more on how coaching works, read What Is Coaching?

How do I know if this will work for me?

With over a decade of combined experience in supporting women in their wellbeing and marriage difficulties, we have honed our systems down to an exact science.

The best way for both of us to gain 100% confidence that this is the absolute best way for you to approach your post-betrayal decisions is to jump on a short call so we can get clear on the exact steps you should be taking based on your specific background and situation.

Book a call HERE.

WHAT OUR CLIENTS SAY

WHAT OUR CLIENTS SAY


I have a new sense of confidence that I don't think I've really ever had...

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Christina M.

Breakthrough client


I value myself enough now in my life for the first time in 42 years that I'm going to say enough is enough.

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Carole F.

Breakthrough client

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