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Introducing

The ARC

Welcome to

The Ashes Redeemed Community (The ARC).

Designed for the Christian woman who desires to honor the Lord amidst the various trials that marriage can bring, including feelings of burnout, bitterness, and betrayal.

We're delighted to offer all the benefits of online learning and community, without the influences and distractions of social media.

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Introducing

The ARC

Welcome to The Ashes Redeemed Community (The ARC).

Designed for the Christian woman who desires to honor the Lord amidst the various trials that marriage can bring, including feelings of burnout, bitterness, and betrayal.

We're delighted to offer all the benefits of online learning and community, without the influences and distractions of social media.

Join NowYou'll Be Prompted to Create Your Account

"In joining, I’ve found a lot of uplift and mental clarity...I’m feeling blessed by deciding to join and try something new."

"There's a lot that the Lord needs to heal and, and needs to rewire for me but having words to name what I’m going through and to help me understand it is just really, really powerful for me."

"You are such a gift to me. I am so thankful for your time & wisdom. I got off our call and was in awe of God and him placing you in my life..."

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Something Special

For Christian women who’ve faced difficulty in marriage, including intimate betrayal
Bible studies that speak to your heart
Live faith and fellowship Zoom calls
On-demand videos and articles to keep you informed and uplifted
Monthly devotionals
Self-development courses to build your confidence and shape the life God has planned for you

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Once Inside, You'll Enjoy

Privacy

Social media can feel overwhelming, especially when you're healing from intimate betrayal. Our community values your privacy. We’ve created a safe, uplifting space away from the chaos of social media.

Growth

We offer faith-based courses and self-development programs tailored to where you are in your journey. Whether you're just starting to heal or well on your way, you'll find resources to deepen your faith, understand yourself, and envision the future God has for you.

Fellowship

Look forward to Bible studies, meet & greets, and Q&A sessions. Our calendar is filled with events designed to lift your spirits and bring you closer to a supportive community of sisters.

Focus

Productive conversations change lives. Some programs come with live coaching, either in groups or one-on-one. All our coaches are Certified Professional Coaches, trained to help you reach your goals and well-being.

Please note: Ashes Redeemed offers professional coaching services—not therapy or counseling. For more information on how coaching works, read What Is Coaching?

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Please Answer Before Joining...

Which of the following do you feel would benefit you most at this time?

Connecting with other women who are in a similar situation as I am.

Enjoying online engagement that is not part of social media (like Facebook, LinkedIn, etc)

Learning from courses and programs that are different from counseling or therapy.

Participating in group or individual coaching.

Participating in a women's Bible study

Something not listed here...

Which of the following best describes you?

I consider myself a Christian and align with most/all traditional Christian beliefs

I do not consider myself a follower of the Christian faith

Understandably, even among those in the Christian faith there can be a wide variety of perspectives and interpretations when it comes to marriage, sex, and betrayal. For transparency, the perspective from which we support women is as follows:

Our Beliefs

Marriage is used throughout the Bible as a reflection of Christ’s relationship to the Church itself (Ephesians 5:32).

We believe that God has commanded that no intimate sexual activity be engaged in outside of a marriage between a man and a woman.

Furthermore, we believe that God intends sexual intimacy to occur between a man and a woman who are married to each other (1 Cor. 6:18; 7:2-5; Heb. 13:4).

Just as adoption points us to a deeper understanding of all believers being adopted into God’s family through Christ, biblical marriage and families point us to a deeper understanding of the Church as the bride of Christ.

Community Guidelines

-This community is exclusively for women.

-No partners or shared accounts.

-No soliciting

-Abuse or misuse of this community will result in immediate removal.

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Introducing

The Healing Accelerator Framework

Feel better right now by using our One Page Healing Accelerator Framework to get immediate relief from the pain, confusion, and fear of regret that comes from discovering betrayal in your marriage, by understanding betrayal's impact the way you see your future.

In this micro training, you'll experience just one small piece of our From Betrayal to Breakthrough program-the clearest & most predictable system for any Christian woman who is serious abut finding the clarity she needs to make a decision on what to do next...

Meet Our Facilitators

Hi there!

Expert in Chiropractise Treatment

We're Elise Park & Jennifer Kwiatkowski. As Christian women who have both overcome issues of betrayal in our own marriages, we know what it's like to face certain challenges that are unique to Believers when it comes to post-betrayal decisions.

As Certified Professional Coaches, we have supported women in their wellbeing endeavors for many years, but our passion for equipping Christian women to live authentically in their faith, while becoming the strongest, most resilient & radiant version of themselves has only grown--especially as we see the devastating effects that our hyper-sexualized culture has on the family unit.

We are blessed to see God work powerfully in the lives and marriages of our clients and are honored to be a part of their healing journeys.

Blessings to you,

Elise & Jennifer

How much does it cost to join the community?

The Ashes Redeemed Community is free to join at this time.

Financial investment is required to access our coaching programs and courses. Some of these courses will include access to exclusive community discussions that are not visible to general members.

As opposed to requiring a fee to join, charging for select courses and programs allows us to make the Ashes Redeemed Community, as well as other support resources, accessible to women who may not have financial resources available to them.

When you purchase a coaching program, know that you are helping many women receive support and healing through this work! Paid-for programs are offered at a variety of price points.

Can anyone join?

Our mission is to help Christian women find their footing the face of betrayal in her marriage. We understand that even among Christians there can be varied thoughts and convictions regarding marriage, intimacy, and the role of one's faith. Rather than try to be "everything to everyone", we prefer to be clear about the lens with which we approach these difficult topics.

We believe that marriage is used throughout the Bible as a reflection of Christ’s relationship to the Church itself (Ephesians 5:32).

We believe that God has commanded that no intimate sexual activity be engaged in outside of a marriage between a man and a woman.

Furthermore, we believe that God intends sexual intimacy to occur between a man and a woman who are married to each other (1 Cor. 6:18; 7:2-5; Heb. 13:4).

Just as adoption points us to a deeper understanding of all believers being adopted into God’s family through Christ, biblical marriage and families point us to a deeper understanding of the Church as the bride of Christ.

With this in mind, only women will be admitted to join the community. We find those who flourish best with our support are those who align with these core beliefs.

Is the community private?

Yes. We know that some social media users are wary of joining Facebook groups because it's not always clear who can see which groups you have joined. We are fully aware that the subject matter of our group is sensitive. Sometimes, social media algorithms work in a way is that is unclear, or unpredictable. We have listened to the many women who have shared with us that they don't feel safe to engage on Facebook in regard to support for intimate betrayal because of what the platform may divulge to their connections.

Since the Ashes Redeemed Community is hosted off of social media, your engagement in the community will not be visible to anyone you are connected with on social media platforms (like Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, etc). Only members of the Ashes Redeemed Community can see fellow members and what they post.

What Our Members Are Saying

"Things can either get worse, stay the same, or get better. I couldn't handle the first two options any longer. I needed to surrender and ask for help."