Marriage Coaching for Christian Women
Discover Your Pathway from Betrayal to Breakthrough:
Confidently Navigate Your Next Steps
From Betrayal to Breakthrough by Ashes Redeemed is Right for You If You're Ready For...
Radical Confidence: Break free from the paralysis of indecision and reclaim your confidence to make life-altering decisions that honor your true self and God's plan for you.
Faith Restored: Reignite your faith and trust in God through a Biblically-based support system that caters to your spiritual needs.
Future-Focused: Achieve a sense of clarity and purpose as you envision a future that aligns with divine wisdom.
Life-Changing Boundaries: Learn to set and honor meaningful boundaries, empowering you to move forward at your own pace without external pressures or fears.
Discover Your Pathway from Betrayal to Breakthrough:
Confidently Navigate Your Next Steps
From Betrayal to Breakthrough by Ashes Redeemed is Right for You If You're Ready For...
Radical Confidence: Break free from the paralysis of indecision and reclaim your confidence to make life-altering decisions that honor your true self and God's plan for you.
Faith Restored: Reignite your faith and trust in God through a Biblically-based support system that caters to your spiritual needs.
Future-Focused: Achieve a sense of clarity and purpose as you envision a future that aligns with divine wisdom.
Life-Changing Boundaries: Learn to set and honor meaningful boundaries, empowering you to move forward at your own pace without external pressures or fears.
Praise for From Betrayal to Breakthrough
E. M.
"I feel I can actually make a choice where I felt like before I was just a victim of my emotions and now I can recognize that and make better choices."
L. T.
"I needed something for me so that regardless of the outcome of my marriage, I will be OK. I will be anchored. And that's when I found From Betrayal to Breakthrough!"
G. A.
"I have a new sense of confidence that I don't think I've really ever had."
R. P.
"I've been able to help my kids better with their emotions because I'm able to recognize where they are and help them through whatever they're working through."
Praise for
From Betrayal to Breakthrough
E. M.
"I feel I can actually make a choice where I felt like before I was just a victim of my emotions and now I can recognize that and make better choices."
L. T.
"I needed something for me so that regardless of the outcome of my marriage, I will be OK. I will be anchored. And that's when I found From Betrayal to Breakthrough!"
G. A.
"I have a new sense of confidence that I don't think I've really ever had."
R. P.
"I've been able to help my kids better with their emotions because I'm able to recognize where they are and help them through whatever they're working through."
Ready to Discover the Next Step in Your Journey?
Ready to Discover the Next Step in Your Journey?
When your world is shattered by betrayal, it's hard to see a way forward
The From Betrayal to Breakthrough program is here to guide you through the darkness with Biblical wisdom and supportive guidance, helping you transform pain into purpose.
This program is specifically designed for Christian women who have suffered from infidelity, offering a structured, supportive journey towards healing. It begins with rebuilding your confidence, which betrayal has deeply wounded, and moves towards reviving your relationship with God.
Guided by a step-by-step process, you will navigate your way through the pain, gaining clarity about your future without fear or regret. Learn to set firm boundaries that offer protection and create space for healing in 90 days.
Forgiveness is a key component in your journey, transforming it into a tool for deep healing, whether you stay in your marriage or move forward on your own. Your unique journey will culminate in a powerful testimony that serves and inspires others while glorifying God.
Steps in the From Betrayal to Breakthrough program include:
Step One: Confidence Compass
Understanding the impact of betrayal on your confidence will help give you more awareness about how to move forward.
Step Two: Betrayal Breakthrough
Understanding the impact your husband’s betrayal has had on your faith and the way you see the Lord will give you the courage to ask tough questions of God and His sovereignty.
Step Three: Healing Accelerator
Infidelity often shatters self-esteem. Our proprietary curriculum helps you reconstruct your body image and foster profound self-love amid the brokenness. You will learn to nourish your self-concept and reclaim your worth.
Step Four: Discernment Decoder
Tune into the Holy Spirit for discernment to separate truth from lies, without ignoring your intuition.
Step Five: Powerful Pathways
Get clarity on your options without feeling pressured to make a decision before you’re ready by learning how to set and honor meaningful boundaries.
Step Six: Your Forgiveness Formula
Learn why forgiveness is your secret weapon–whether you stay in your marriage, or decide to move on.
Step Seven: Future Navigator
Create the life you believe God truly has for you, without feeling like you’ve settled.
Step Eight: Barrier Buster
Powerfully use your testimony to serve the Lord and others while eliminating guilt, shame, and fear from dictating your future.
Step Nine: The No Regrets Progress Planner
Design a wellbeing plan for making post- betrayal decisions, without doubt, or fear of regret, or uncertainty.
Don't let betrayal define the rest of your life.
Take the first courageous step towards healing by completing the Betrayal Assessment now.
When your world is shattered by betrayal, it's hard to see a way forward
The From Betrayal to Breakthrough program is here to guide you through the darkness with Biblical wisdom and supportive guidance, helping you transform pain into purpose.
This program is specifically designed for Christian women who have suffered from infidelity, offering a structured, supportive journey towards healing. It begins with rebuilding your confidence, which betrayal has deeply wounded, and moves towards reviving your relationship with God.
Guided by a step-by-step process, you will navigate your way through the pain, gaining clarity about your future without fear or regret. Learn to set firm boundaries that offer protection and create space for healing in 90 days.
Forgiveness is a key component in your journey, transforming it into a tool for deep healing, whether you stay in your marriage or move forward on your own. Your unique journey will culminate in a powerful testimony that serves and inspires others while glorifying God.
Steps in the
From Betrayal to Breakthrough program include:
Step One:
Confidence Compass
Understanding the impact of betrayal on your confidence will help give you more awareness about how to move forward.
Step Two:
Betrayal Breakthrough
Understanding the impact your husband’s betrayal has had on your faith and the way you see the Lord will give you the courage to ask tough questions of God and His sovereignty.
Step Three:
Healing Accelerator
Infidelity often shatters self-esteem. Our proprietary curriculum helps you reconstruct your body image and foster profound self-love amid the brokenness. You will learn to nourish your self-concept and reclaim your worth.
Step Four:
Discernment Decoder
Tune into the Holy Spirit for discernment to separate truth from lies, without ignoring your intuition.
Step Five:
Powerful Pathways
Get clarity on your options without feeling pressured to make a decision before you’re ready by learning how to set and honor meaningful boundaries.
Step Six:
Your Forgiveness Formula
Learn why forgiveness is your secret weapon–whether you stay in your marriage, or decide to move on.
Step Seven:
Future Navigator
Create the life you believe God truly has for you, without feeling like you’ve settled.
Step Eight:
Barrier Buster
Powerfully use your testimony to serve the Lord and others while eliminating guilt, shame, and fear from dictating your future.
Step Nine:
The No Regrets Progress Planner
Design a wellbeing plan for making post- betrayal decisions, without doubt, or fear of regret, or uncertainty.
Meet Your Coaches
Hi There!
We're Elise Park & Jennifer Kwiatkowski. As Christian women who have both overcome issues of betrayal in our own marriages, we know what it's like to face certain challenges that are unique to Believers when it comes to post-betrayal decisions.
As Certified Professional Coaches, we have supported women in their wellbeing endeavors for many years, but our passion for equipping Christian women to live authentically in their faith, while becoming the strongest, most resilient & radiant version of themselves has only grown--especially as we see the devastating effects that our hyper-sexualized culture has on the family unit.
We are blessed to see God work powerfully in the lives and marriages of our clients and are honored to be a part of their healing journeys.
Blessings to you,
Elise & Jennifer
Meet Your Coaches
Hi There!
We're Elise Park & Jennifer Kwiatkowski. As Christian women who have both overcome issues of betrayal in our own marriages, we know what it's like to face certain challenges that are unique to Believers when it comes to post-betrayal decisions.
As Certified Professional Coaches, we have supported women in their wellbeing endeavors for many years, but our passion for equipping Christian women to live authentically in their faith, while becoming the strongest, most resilient & radiant version of themselves has only grown--especially as we see the devastating effects that our hyper-sexualized culture has on the family unit.
We are blessed to see God work powerfully in the lives and marriages of our clients and are honored to be a part of their healing journeys.
Blessings to you,
Elise & Jennifer
What's Included?
The 90-Day From Betrayal to Breakthrough Program Comes With:
All Nine On-Demand Video Modules (4 Lessons per Module)
Lesson Worksheets & Assignments
90 Day access to support chat with coaches & other members
Private Community for Real Time Support & Fellowship
What's Included?
The 90-Day From Betrayal to Breakthrough Program Comes With:
All Nine On-Demand Video Modules (4 Lessons per Module)
Lesson Worksheets & Assignments
90 Day Access to Support Chat with Coaches & Other Members
Private Community for Real Time Support & Fellowship
What is From Betrayal to Breakthrough
The From Betrayal to Breakthrough program is a powerful system for helping Christian women find the clarity they need about their marriage in just 90 days, without the obstacles of indecision, self-doubt, or fear of regret--so they can finally feel good about moving forward from the discovery of betrayal in the marriage.
So if you want a crystal clear and predictable roadmap to help you figure out if you want to:
A) confidently stay with your husband and work to restore your marriage, or
B) be at peace with moving on from the relationship,
...then you've found it.
How does it work?
You may not be ready yet to face making a long-term decision about your marriage, and that's ok.
-Maybe your husband has repented from the betrayal and you're trying to decide what you want to do...
-Maybe he doesn't yet know that you've become aware of the betrayal...
-Still, maybe he's left you to navigate this pain and confusion all by yourself...
Regardless of the circumstances, we know that you will be feeling the aftershock of this for a long time and are here to share with you that there are three ingredients that every woman in this situation must have in place in order to regain a state of balance.
Commitment
Being committed to your own spiritual, emotional, and mental wellbeing is an essential first step in getting the clarity you need to move forward. No one can make this commitment for you--it must come from a deep desire to break free of the pain, confusion, and fear that will otherwise keep you stuck in resentment and anger for the rest of your life.
Airline attendants tell the passengers, "In case of emergency, put your own oxygen masks first!" and this is essentially what we do in our program--we help you put your own "oxygen mask" on first, so that you can make a decision that aligns with your faith and supports your values.
Support
Countless women have shared their betrayal stories with us and almost all of them have remarked how lonely they've felt while dealing with the pain, despite being active in their church community. It's clear to that the support they've gotten has been either not enough, or not the right kind. Most often this looks like:
-Help for the man (but not for her)
-"Just" advice: "Just hurry up and forgive him..." or "Just leave already..."
Neither of these truly support the healing and wellbeing for the betrayed wife in her decision on how to handle her next steps.
Benefiting from the right kind of support doesn't have to take a long time, but it must be done with care, intention, and sensitivity. This is what we offer.
Discernment
The final ingredient needed to achieve the clarity you're looking for is discernment. We know you have a lot of mental and emotional "noise" after discovering an incident or lifestyle of betrayal. In addition to all the external factors (like time, money, friends, and family) you also have internal factors influencing the way you respond to your situation, not to mention the spiritual warfare you're contenting with also. Don't let the enemy use this time as fertile ground for building strongholds to tear you down.
How is this different from counseling or therapy?
Counseling, therapy, and coaching are all valid, but different modalities for helping a person make productive changes to their life. Coaching as a form of support has its roots in the world of sports and performance, to enhance capabilities and apply the use of practical tools. In short, coaching helps you create. Many clients benefit from working with a counselor or therapist while also working with a coach. Coaching is not intended to be crisis management. Ashes Redeemed coaches are Certified Professional Coaches and credentialed by the International Coaching Federation.
For more on how coaching works, read What Is Coaching?
How do I know if this will work for me?
With over a decade of combined experience in supporting women in their wellbeing and marriage difficulties, we have honed our systems down to an exact science.
The best way for both of us to gain 100% confidence that this is the absolute best way for you to approach your post-betrayal decisions is to first determine which Phase of Healing you are in, as determined by taking our R.E.F.R.E.S.H. Betrayal Assessment. After you take your assessment and see which Phase of Healing you are in, book your individualized debrief session with us to determine which program is just right for you.
Take the Betrayal Assessment Here.
What is From Betrayal to Breakthrough
The From Betrayal to Breakthrough program is a powerful system for helping Christian women find the clarity they need about their marriage in just 90 days, without the obstacles of indecision, self-doubt, or fear of regret--so they can finally feel good about moving forward from the discovery of betrayal in the marriage.
So if you want a crystal clear and predictable roadmap to help you figure out if you want to:
A) confidently stay with your husband and work to restore your marriage, or
B) be at peace with moving on from the relationship,
...then you've found it.
How does it work?
You may not be ready yet to face making a long-term decision about your marriage, and that's ok.
-Maybe your husband has repented from the betrayal and you're trying to decide what you want to do...
-Maybe he doesn't yet know that you've become aware of the betrayal...
-Still, maybe he's left you to navigate this pain and confusion all by yourself...
Regardless of the circumstances, we know that you will be feeling the aftershock of this for a long time and are here to share with you that there are three ingredients that every woman in this situation must have in place in order to regain a state of balance.
Commitment
Being committed to your own spiritual, emotional, and mental wellbeing is an essential first step in getting the clarity you need to move forward. No one can make this commitment for you--it must come from a deep desire to break free of the pain, confusion, and fear that will otherwise keep you stuck in resentment and anger for the rest of your life.
Airline attendants tell the passengers, "In case of emergency, put your own oxygen masks first!" and this is essentially what we do in our program--we help you put your own "oxygen mask" on first, so that you can make a decision that aligns with your faith and supports your values.
Support
Countless women have shared their betrayal stories with us and almost all of them have remarked how lonely they've felt while dealing with the pain, despite being active in their church community. It's clear to that the support they've gotten has been either not enough, or not the right kind. Most often this looks like:
-Help for the man (but not for her)
-"Just" advice: "Just hurry up and forgive him..." or "Just leave already..."
Neither of these truly support the healing and wellbeing for the betrayed wife in her decision on how to handle her next steps.
Benefiting from the right kind of support doesn't have to take a long time, but it must be done with care, intention, and sensitivity. This is what we offer.
Discernment
The final ingredient needed to achieve the clarity you're looking for is discernment. We know you have a lot of mental and emotional "noise" after discovering an incident or lifestyle of betrayal. In addition to all the external factors (like time, money, friends, and family) you also have internal factors influencing the way you respond to your situation, not to mention the spiritual warfare you're contenting with also. Don't let the enemy use this time as fertile ground for building strongholds to tear you down.
How is this different from counseling or therapy?
Counseling, therapy, and coaching are all valid, but different modalities for helping a person make productive changes to their life. Coaching as a form of support has its roots in the world of sports and performance, to enhance capabilities and apply the use of practical tools. In short, coaching helps you create. Many clients benefit from working with a counselor or therapist while also working with a coach. Coaching is not intended to be crisis management. Ashes Redeemed coaches are Certified Professional Coaches and credentialed by the International Coaching Federation.
For more on how coaching works, read What Is Coaching?
How do I know if this will work for me?
With over a decade of combined experience in supporting women in their wellbeing and marriage difficulties, we have honed our systems down to an exact science.
The best way for both of us to gain 100% confidence that this is the absolute best way for you to approach your post-betrayal decisions is to first determine which Phase of Healing you are in, as determined by taking our R.E.F.R.E.S.H. Betrayal Assessment. After you take your assessment and see which Phase of Healing you are in, book your individualized debrief session with us to determine which program is just right for you.
Take the Betrayal Assessment Here.
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