Marriage Coaching for Christian Women
Your Path to Healing After Betrayal Begins Here:
Discover the Comfort and Clarity You Desperately Seek
The Ashes Redeemed Care Package:
Empowering Christian Women to Rebuild Their Lives After Infidelity
Immediate Guidance in Your New Reality: Don’t let the chaos consume you! Our program helps you navigate every emotional and psychological aftermath of your husband’s infidelity.
Healing Through Blame and Forgiveness: Learn to navigate the treacherous waters of blame, self-forgiveness, and true accountability with guidance rooted in biblical principles.
Reclaim Your Self-Worth: Rebuild your body image and self-love, even when your world feels shattered. Our approach nurtures your broken self-esteem and fosters profound healing.
Transform Through Spiritual Resilience: Equip yourself with spiritual tools to confront dilemmas and grow stronger in your faith, even in the face of betrayal.
Your Path to Healing After Betrayal Begins Here:
Discover the Comfort and Clarity You Desperately Seek
The Ashes Redeemed Care Package:
Empowering Christian Women to Rebuild Their Lives After Infidelity
Immediate Guidance in Your New Reality: Don’t let the chaos consume you! Our program helps you navigate every emotional and psychological aftermath of your husband’s infidelity.
Healing Through Blame and Forgiveness: Learn to navigate the treacherous waters of blame, self-forgiveness, and true accountability with guidance rooted in biblical principles.
Reclaim Your Self-Worth: Rebuild your body image and self-love, even when your world feels shattered. Our approach nurtures your broken self-esteem and fosters profound healing.
Transform Through Spiritual Resilience: Equip yourself with spiritual tools to confront dilemmas and grow stronger in your faith, even in the face of betrayal.
Applause for The Care Package
Nicole
“Jennifer, you are such a gift to me and I am so thankful for your time & wisdom. I got off the phone and was in awe of God and His placing you in my life.”
Shannon
“I really needed help and especially help from someone that could guide me biblically to what God wanted for my life. Scripture to reinforce what I knew but had forgotten amidst the grief and turmoil I was in. God’s words were my lessons and having the tools provided to me to navigate my grief and despair were life-changing.”
Rita
“The Care Package is awesome. I am so thankful for YOU! Taking some time tonight and reflecting on our conversation and what you just wrote. Forever grateful for your wisdom, heart and power in Christ.”
Tina
“Jennifer was my lifeline; she saved me! I am a different woman today because of her. I think if you were to meet me today, you would leave saying there is no way that woman who experienced what she did could be so strong. I am stronger than ever. Each day I’m reminded how wonderfully I’m made in Christ. I know my value, my worth, and what a healthy relationship looks like. My relationship with Christ is stronger, and for that, I’m grateful. I hope to be a lighthouse one day to others.”
Applause for The Care Package
Nicole
“Jennifer, you are such a gift to me and I am so thankful for your time & wisdom. I got off the phone and was in awe of God and His placing you in my life.”
Shannon
“I really needed help and especially help from someone that could guide me biblically to what God wanted for my life. Scripture to reinforce what I knew but had forgotten amidst the grief and turmoil I was in. God’s words were my lessons and having the tools provided to me to navigate my grief and despair were life-changing.”
Rita
“The Care Package is awesome. I am so thankful for YOU! Taking some time tonight and reflecting on our conversation and what you just wrote. Forever grateful for your wisdom, heart and power in Christ.”
Tina
“Jennifer was my lifeline; she saved me! I am a different woman today because of her. I think if you were to meet me today, you would leave saying there is no way that woman who experienced what she did could be so strong. I am stronger than ever. Each day I’m reminded how wonderfully I’m made in Christ. I know my value, my worth, and what a healthy relationship looks like. My relationship with Christ is stronger, and for that, I’m grateful. I hope to be a lighthouse one day to others.”
Start Your Journey to Healing Now
Start Your Journey to Healing Now
Discovering your husband’s infidelity has turned your world upside down.
You feel lost, betrayed, and unsure of what the future holds. At The Ashes Redeemed, we understand the gravity of your pain.
The Care Package is designed for Christian women who’ve recently uncovered their husband’s betrayal.
This program, which includes our proprietary Biblically based curriculum and one-on-one support sessions with
Certified Professional Coach and Ashes Redeemed co-founder, Jennifer Kwiatkowski, offers you the comfort and clarity you need right now, including:
Step One: Navigating Your New Reality
Your life has changed drastically, and adjusting to your new reality is no small feat. Through our program, you’ll receive immediate guidance to navigate the emotional and psychological turmoil that accompanies the aftermath of betrayal. You don’t have to face this alone.
Step Two: Coping With Blame and Self-Forgiveness
Blame can be a complex and heavy burden. We address the multifaceted aspects of blame, accountability, and self-forgiveness, helping you find a path to healing both individually and in your marriage, when possible.
Step Three: Rebuilding Body Image
Infidelity often shatters self-esteem. Our proprietary curriculum helps you reconstruct your body image and foster profound self-love amid the brokenness. You will learn to nourish your self-concept and reclaim your worth.
Step Four: Managing Betrayal Trauma
Trauma affects the body, mind, and spirit in deep, often confusing ways. Our program integrates self-compassion practices to help you navigate these new, complex triggers. Understanding and managing them is key to your recovery.
Step Five: Withstanding Emotional Turbulence
Emotional fluctuations are normal on this journey. Finding stability while your world shifts around you is crucial. We provide tools to help you regulate your emotions, so you can begin to see your situation with clear eyes again.
Step Six: Understanding the Healing Timeline
Healing is a layered process. Our curriculum elucidates the phases of healing and the barriers you might face along the way. Deep spiritual insights will support your ongoing recovery.
Step Seven: Recognizing True Repentance
Understanding genuine remorse is essential for rebuilding trust. Our program equips you with skills to identify and evaluate true repentance, enabling you to rebuild trust appropriately.
Step Eight: Addressing Spiritual Dilemmas
Reconciling your faith with the reality of betrayal can create spiritual dilemmas. We help you manage these challenges, strengthening your spiritual resilience in the process.
Step Nine: Contemplating Forgiveness
Forgiveness can be especially challenging when it comes to intimate betrayal. Our program helps you navigate the spiritual dimensions of forgiveness, allowing you to reconcile your faith with your healing process.
Discovering your husband’s infidelity has turned your world upside down.
You feel lost, betrayed, and unsure of what the future holds. At The Ashes Redeemed, we understand the gravity of your pain.
The Care Package is designed for Christian women who’ve recently uncovered their husband’s betrayal.
This program, which includes our proprietary Biblically based curriculum and one-on-one support sessions with
Certified Professional Coach and Ashes Redeemed co-founder, Jennifer Kwiatkowski, offers you the comfort and clarity you need right now, including:
Step One:
Navigating Your New Reality
Your life has changed drastically, and adjusting to your new reality is no small feat. Through our program, you’ll receive immediate guidance to navigate the emotional and psychological turmoil that accompanies the aftermath of betrayal. You don’t have to face this alone.
Step Two:
Coping With Blame and Applying
Self-Forgiveness
Blame can be a complex and heavy burden. We address the multifaceted aspects of blame, accountability, and self-forgiveness, helping you find a path to healing both individually and in your marriage, when possible.
Step Three:
Rebuilding Body Image
Infidelity often shatters self-esteem. Our proprietary curriculum helps you reconstruct your body image and foster profound self-love amid the brokenness. You will learn to nourish your self-concept and reclaim your worth.
Step Four:
Managing Betrayal Trauma
Trauma affects the body, mind, and spirit in deep, often confusing ways. Our program integrates self-compassion practices to help you navigate these new, complex triggers. Understanding and managing them is key to your recovery.
Step Five:
Withstanding Emotional Turbulence
Emotional fluctuations are normal on this journey. Finding stability while your world shifts around you is crucial. We provide tools to help you regulate your emotions, so you can begin to see your situation with clear eyes again.
Step Six:
Understanding the Healing Timeline
Healing is a layered process. Our curriculum elucidates the phases of healing and the barriers you might face along the way. Deep spiritual insights will support your ongoing recovery.
Step Seven: Recognizing True Repentance
Understanding genuine remorse is essential for rebuilding trust. Our program equips you with skills to identify and evaluate true repentance, enabling you to rebuild trust appropriately.
Step Eight:
Addressing Spiritual Dilemmas
Reconciling your faith with the reality of betrayal can create spiritual dilemmas. We help you manage these challenges, strengthening your spiritual resilience in the process.
Step Nine:
Contemplating Forgiveness
Forgiveness can be especially challenging when it comes to intimate betrayal. Our program helps you navigate the spiritual dimensions of forgiveness, allowing you to reconcile your faith with your healing process.
Meet Your Coach
Dear Sister,
I'm Jennifer Kwiatkowski. As a Christian woman who has overcome issues of betrayal in my own marriage, I know what it's like to face certain challenges that are unique to Believers especially when it comes to post-betrayal decisions.
As a Certified Professional Coach, I have supported women in their wellbeing endeavors for many years. However, my passion for equipping Christian women to live authentically in their faith, while becoming the strongest, most resilient & radiant version of themselves has only grown, especially as all of us have seen the devastating effects that our hyper-sexualized culture has on the family unit.
Elise and I are blessed to see God work powerfully in the lives and marriages of our clients and are honored to be a part of their healing journeys.
With love and understanding,
Jennifer
Meet Your Coach
Dear Sister,
I'm Jennifer Kwiatkowski. As a Christian woman who has overcome issues of betrayal in my own marriage, I know what it's like to face certain challenges that are unique to Believers especially when it comes to post-betrayal decisions.
As a Certified Professional Coach, I have supported women in their wellbeing endeavors for many years. However, my passion for equipping Christian women to live authentically in their faith, while becoming the strongest, most resilient & radiant version of themselves has only grown, especially as all of us have seen the devastating effects that our hyper-sexualized culture has on the family unit.
Elise and I are blessed to see God work powerfully in the lives and marriages of our clients and are honored to be a part of their healing journeys.
With love and understanding,
Jennifer
The Ashes Redeemed Care Package
Includes
Ten one-on-one sessions with Jennifer, your dedicated coach to support your growth
Biblically based "heart"work assignments to keep you spiritually nurtured during this difficult time
Online care group & support chat inside of a private community
Because you have been through a revelation that has caused significant mental anguish, you are wise to reach
out for support at this time.
This is an option most likely for women who are at the beginning of their healing journey and who would benefit most from one-on-one support for their self-development.
The Ashes Redeemed Care Package
Includes
Ten one-on-one sessions with Jennifer, your dedicated coach to support your growth
Biblically based "heart"work assignments to keep you spiritually nurtured during this difficult time
Online care group & support chat inside of a private community
Because you have been through a revelation that has caused significant mental anguish, you are wise to reach
out for support at this time.
This is an option most likely for women who are at the beginning of their healing journey and who would benefit most from one-on-one support for their self-development.
What is The Care Package?
The Ashes Redeemed Care Package is a one-on-one support program made especially for the Christian woman who has recently discovered her husband has been unfaithful in word or deed. Understandably, there are many layers to this kind of revelation in a marriage, and it's become clear to us that women often feel alone, scared, and unsure of what to expect next as they adjust to this new reality.
The Care Package helps a woman remain grounded in her faith, or reconnect with her faith in the Lord, while benefiting from having an objective support partner: a dedicated professional coach.
While friends, family, and your church community are all very important pillars in your ecosystem of healing, a coach offers a different kind of support. Your coach is on your side, and there to hold space, explore, and support your goals, not to tell you what you "should" do, or to diagnose or judge you.
How does it work?
You may not be ready yet to face making a long-term decision about your marriage, and that's ok.
-Maybe your husband has repented from the betrayal and you're trying to decide what you want to do...
-Maybe he doesn't yet know that you've become aware of the betrayal...
-Still, maybe he's left you to navigate this pain and confusion all by yourself...
Regardless of the circumstances, we know that you will be feeling the aftershock of this for a long time and are here to share with you that there are three ingredients that every woman in this situation must have in place in order to regain a state of balance.
Commitment
Being committed to your own spiritual, emotional, and mental wellbeing is an essential first step in getting the clarity you need to move forward. No one can make this commitment for you--it must come from a deep desire to break free of the pain, confusion, and fear that will otherwise keep you stuck in resentment and anger for the rest of your life.
Airline attendants tell the passengers, "In case of emergency, put your own oxygen masks first!" and this is essentially what we do in our program--we help you put your own "oxygen mask" on first, so that you can make a decision that aligns with your faith and supports your values.
Support
Countless women have shared their betrayal stories with us and almost all of them have remarked how lonely they've felt while dealing with the pain, despite being active in their church community. It's clear to that the support they've gotten has been either not enough, or not the right kind. Most often this looks like:
-Help for the man (but not for her)
-"Just" advice: "Just hurry up and forgive him..." or "Just leave already..."
Neither of these truly support the healing and wellbeing for the betrayed wife in her decision on how to handle her next steps.
Benefiting from the right kind of support doesn't have to take a long time, but it must be done with care, intention, and sensitivity. This is what we offer.
Discernment
The final ingredient needed to achieve the clarity you're looking for is discernment. We know you have a lot of mental and emotional "noise" after discovering an incident or lifestyle of betrayal. In addition to all the external factors (like time, money, friends, and family) you also have internal factors influencing the way you respond to your situation, not to mention the spiritual warfare you're contenting with also. Don't let the enemy use this time as fertile ground for building strongholds to tear you down.
How is this different from counseling or therapy?
Counseling, therapy, and coaching are all valid, but different modalities for helping a person make productive changes to their life. Coaching as a form of support has its roots in the world of sports and performance, to enhance capabilities and apply the use of practical tools. In short, coaching helps you create. Many clients benefit from working with a counselor or therapist while also working with a coach. Coaching is not intended to be crisis management. Ashes Redeemed coaches are Certified Professional Coaches and credentialed by the International Coaching Federation.
For more on how coaching works, read What Is Coaching?
How do I know if this will work for me?
With over a decade of combined experience in supporting women in their wellbeing and marriage difficulties, we have honed our systems down to an exact science.
The best way for both of us to gain 100% confidence that this is the absolute best way for you to approach your post-betrayal decisions is to first determine which Phase of Healing you are in, as determined by taking our R.E.F.R.E.S.H. Betrayal Assessment. After you take your assessment and see which Phase of Healing you are in, book your individualized debrief session with us to determine which program is just right for you.
Take the Betrayal Assessment Here.
What is The Care Package?
The Ashes Redeemed Care Package is a one-on-one support program made especially for the Christian woman who has recently discovered her husband has been unfaithful in word or deed. Understandably, there are many layers to this kind of revelation in a marriage, and it's become clear to us that women often feel alone, scared, and unsure of what to expect next as they adjust to this new reality.
The Care Package helps a woman remain grounded in her faith, or reconnect with her faith in the Lord, while benefiting from having an objective support partner: a dedicated professional coach.
While friends, family, and your church community are all very important pillars in your ecosystem of healing, a coach offers a different kind of support. Your coach is on your side, and there to hold space, explore, and support your goals, not to tell you what you "should" do, or to diagnose or judge you.
How does it work?
You may not be ready yet to face making a long-term decision about your marriage, and that's ok.
-Maybe your husband has repented from the betrayal and you're trying to decide what you want to do...
-Maybe he doesn't yet know that you've become aware of the betrayal...
-Still, maybe he's left you to navigate this pain and confusion all by yourself...
Regardless of the circumstances, we know that you will be feeling the aftershock of this for a long time and are here to share with you that there are three ingredients that every woman in this situation must have in place in order to regain a state of balance.
Commitment
Being committed to your own spiritual, emotional, and mental wellbeing is an essential first step in getting the clarity you need to move forward. No one can make this commitment for you--it must come from a deep desire to break free of the pain, confusion, and fear that will otherwise keep you stuck in resentment and anger for the rest of your life.
Airline attendants tell the passengers, "In case of emergency, put your own oxygen masks first!" and this is essentially what we do in our program--we help you put your own "oxygen mask" on first, so that you can make a decision that aligns with your faith and supports your values.
Support
Countless women have shared their betrayal stories with us and almost all of them have remarked how lonely they've felt while dealing with the pain, despite being active in their church community. It's clear to that the support they've gotten has been either not enough, or not the right kind. Most often this looks like:
-Help for the man (but not for her)
-"Just" advice: "Just hurry up and forgive him..." or "Just leave already..."
Neither of these truly support the healing and wellbeing for the betrayed wife in her decision on how to handle her next steps.
Benefiting from the right kind of support doesn't have to take a long time, but it must be done with care, intention, and sensitivity. This is what we offer.
Discernment
The final ingredient needed to achieve the clarity you're looking for is discernment. We know you have a lot of mental and emotional "noise" after discovering an incident or lifestyle of betrayal. In addition to all the external factors (like time, money, friends, and family) you also have internal factors influencing the way you respond to your situation, not to mention the spiritual warfare you're contenting with also. Don't let the enemy use this time as fertile ground for building strongholds to tear you down.
How is this different from counseling or therapy?
Counseling, therapy, and coaching are all valid, but different modalities for helping a person make productive changes to their life. Coaching as a form of support has its roots in the world of sports and performance, to enhance capabilities and apply the use of practical tools. In short, coaching helps you create. Many clients benefit from working with a counselor or therapist while also working with a coach. Coaching is not intended to be crisis management. Ashes Redeemed coaches are Certified Professional Coaches and credentialed by the International Coaching Federation.
For more on how coaching works, read What Is Coaching?
How do I know if this will work for me?
With over a decade of combined experience in supporting women in their wellbeing and marriage difficulties, we have honed our systems down to an exact science.
The best way for both of us to gain 100% confidence that this is the absolute best way for you to approach your post-betrayal decisions is to first determine which Phase of Healing you are in, as determined by taking our R.E.F.R.E.S.H. Betrayal Assessment.
After you take your assessment and see which Phase of Healing you are in, book your individualized debrief session with us to determine which program is just right for you.
Take the Betrayal Assessment Here.
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