99% of Betrayed Wives Won’t Regain Their Peace

Here's How To Be The 1%

Are you a Christian wife who has been devastated by your husband's unfaithfulness – be it through an affair, emotional infidelity, or habitual pornography use – and you're feeling overwhelmed with uncertainty?

The fear that you might end up staying in a marriage that brings you pain or, conversely, regret leaving a marriage that could have been saved, can be immobilizing.

Imagine what it would feel like to regain your confidence and have the clarity to make a decision that you know, deep in your heart, honors God and brings peace to your life.

Now, you might think that waiting and hoping for things to magically become clear with time is the way to go. But the real root of your problem is that you’re standing at a crossroads, paralyzed by the fear of making the wrong choice.

This is why focusing on nourishing your spiritual, emotional, and mental wellbeing is a better path. By doing this you become the strongest, most resilient version of yourself. This strength allows you to make decisions with unwavering confidence and clarity.

You don’t have to wait for your husband to change; your healing journey starts with you, right here, right now.

99% of Betrayed Wives Won’t Regain Their Peace

Here's How To Be The 1%

The fear that you might end up staying in a marriage that brings you pain or, conversely, regret leaving a marriage that could have been saved, can be immobilizing.

Imagine what it would feel like to regain your confidence and have the clarity to make a decision that you know, deep in your heart, honors God and brings peace to your life.

You don’t have to wait for your husband to change; your healing journey starts with you, right here, right now.

If You Are Someone Who...

Is tired of waiting for your husband to change before you can heal
Wants to make a decision about your marriage that truly honors God
Is willing to finally prioritize your own healing & wellbeing

If You Are Someone Who...

Is tired of waiting for your husband to change before you can heal
Wants to make a decision about your marriage that truly honors God
Is willing to finally prioritize your own healing & wellbeing

Then We Are Here To Help

As Certified Professional Coaches specializing in helping women heal from infidelity, we-Jennifer Kwitkowski and Elise Park-can show you exactly which Phase of Healing you're currently in, provide you with a clear roadmap to move from afraid and uncertain to confident and clear, and welcome you into an online community of healing experts and like-minded women to support your transformation.

Ready To Take The First Step On This Empowering Journey?

Don’t wait another day, wondering what could be. Take the R.E.F.R.E.S.H Assessment by Ashes Redeemed and get your customized report outlining where you're at now, and where to go from here. You owe it to yourself to gain the clarity and confidence you need to make the best decision for your future. Make this moment a turning point.

Then We Are Here To Help

Ready To Take The First Step On This Empowering Journey?

Please don't rush. Completing the assessment may take between 5-10 minutes.

"I feel like I can actually make a choice. Before I was just a victim of my emotions and now I can recognize that and make better choices."

Carrie T.

"This journey has been helping me let myself be human, but then learning how to be human in a way that honors the Lord."

Andrea P.

"I just thought I was tired and burnt out because I was 60, but really I was tired and burnt out because I was just so angry all the time.."

Margie M.

Please don't rush. Completing the assessment may take between 5-10 minutes.

Meet Our Facilitators

Hi there!

We're Elise Park & Jennifer Kwiatkowski. As Christian women who have both overcome issues of betrayal in our own marriages, we know what it's like to face certain challenges that are unique to Believers when it comes to post-betrayal decisions.

As Certified Professional Coaches, we have supported women in their wellbeing endeavors for many years, but our passion for equipping Christian women to live authentically in their faith, while becoming the strongest, most resilient & radiant version of themselves has only grown--especially as we see the devastating effects that our hyper-sexualized culture has on the family unit.

We are blessed to see God work powerfully in the lives and marriages of our clients and are honored to be a part of their healing journeys.

Blessings to you,

Elise & Jennifer

What is From Betrayal to Breakthrough?

The From Betrayal to Breakthrough program is a powerful system for helping Christian women find the clarity they need about their marriage in just 90 days, without the obstacles of indecision, self-doubt, or fear of regret--so they can finally feel good about moving forward from the discovery of betrayal in the marriage.

So if you want a crystal clear and predictable roadmap to help you figure out if you want to:

A) confidently stay with your husband and work to restore your marriage, or

B) be at peace with moving on from the relationship,

...then you've found it.

How does it work?

Making a long-term decision about your marriage after betrayal isn't easy. There are three ingredients that every woman in this situation must have in place in order to reach a decision that she feels alined with:

Commitment

Being committed to your own spiritual, emotional, and mental wellbeing is an essential first step in getting the clarity you need to move forward. No one can make this commitment for you--it must come from a deep desire to break free of the pain, confusion, and fear that will otherwise keep you stuck in resentment and anger for the rest of your life.

Airline attendants tell the passengers, "In case of emergency, put your own oxygen masks first!" and this is essentially what we do in our program--we help you put your own "oxygen mask" on first, so that you can make a decision that aligns with your faith and supports your values.

Support

Countless women have shared their betrayal stories with us and almost all of them have remarked how lonely they've felt while dealing with the pain, despite being active in their church community. It's clear to that the support they've gotten has been either not enough, or not the right kind. Most often this looks like:

-Help for the man (but not for her)

-"Just" advice: "Just hurry up and forgive him..." or "Just leave already..."

Neither of these truly support the healing and wellbeing for the betrayed wife in her decision on how to handle her next steps.

Benefiting from the right kind of support doesn't have to take a long time, but it must be done with care, intention, and sensitivity. This is what we offer.

Discernment

The final ingredient needed to achieve the clarity you're looking for is discernment. We know you have a lot of mental and emotional "noise" after discovering an incident or lifestyle of betrayal. In addition to all the external factors (like time, money, friends, and family) you also have internal factors influencing the way you respond to your situation, not to mention the spiritual warfare you're contenting with also.

Being able to distinguish truth from lies is essential for moving forward in your decision, so that you're not living in anger, resentment, or regret for the rest of your life.

How is this different from counseling or therapy?

Counseling, therapy, and coaching are all valid, but different modalities for helping a person make productive changes to their life. Coaching as a form of support has its roots in the world of sports and performance, to enhance capabilities and apply the use of practical tools. In short, coaching helps you create. Many clients benefit from working with a counselor or therapist while also working with a coach. Coaching is not intended to be crisis management. Ashes Redeemed coaches are Certified Professional Coaches and credentialed by the International Coaching Federation.

For more on how coaching works, read What Is Coaching?

How do I know if this will work for me?

With over a decade of combined experience in supporting women in their wellbeing and marriage difficulties, we have honed our systems down to an exact science.

The best way for both of us to gain 100% confidence that this is the absolute best way for you to approach your post-betrayal decisions is to jump on a short call so we can get clear on the exact steps you should be taking based on your specific background and situation.

Book a call HERE.